4 Nov 2019 12:32 AM EST

A wedding invitation is often described as 'a bill written in calligraphy.' And according to Business Insider, being a bridesmaid typically comes at an even higher price! Bridesmaids are traditionally expected to pay for their own dresses, which averages about $143. Mind you, the 'dress' also includes shoes and accessories. But they also may be on the hook for doing their own hair and makeup, too! Happily, some brides are 'allowing' bridesmaids to choose their own dresses within a certain color pallette. And the couple getting married are expected to cover all the costs of the rehearsal dinner, wedding, and reception!